By NinaMaria Badalemti
Whether you are starting a new class, joining a new student organization, going into a job interview, or just trying to make new friends, we all want to be memorable. Being memorable is a huge part of networking and making connections with people. If you don’t stand out and people don’t remember you, you can say good-bye to that new job and making friends will be much more difficult. So here are four simple steps to make yourself more memorable to successfully create connections whatever your situation may be.
- Make eye contact.
Making eye contact with the person you’re communicating with shows them that you are not only listening, but also that you are comfortable with them. Having eye contact in a conversation instantly makes you more personable. This is a key component in getting people to want to listen to you. It also shows confidence, which allows people to gain a sense of trust and once again the ability to be comfortable with you.
- Be creative when answering simple questions.
Questions like “How are you?” and “Tell me about yourself” are easy to answer, maybe a little too easy. We often scratch the very surface when answering them and come up with the same response every time without really thinking about it. However, if you put just a little more thought and effort into answering them it will make you stand out. Use unique words; words other than the usual “fine”, good”, and “not bad”. Answers like that are pedestrian and overused. A little creativity goes a long way.
- Be excited about where you are.
Give yourself credit for how far you’ve come; no matter where you’re at in life, you got there yourself! You have yourself to thank! We all have low self esteem at times but realize that you are valuable and be confident. Being comfortable in your own skin and being excited when meeting new people gives you a fun quality. You will send off happy vibes that will make others excited to be with you.
- Be honest.
I think we can all agree that no one likes a liar. Yes, we all want to look good in front of new people, especially in an interview, and may tweak some of our answers but try to stick to the truth. It is easy to sense when someone is lying about something, which is an instant turn off. People respect those who are honest. It gives them a sense of authenticity which will certainty make you stand apart from those who are trying too hard and not acting themselves.
So there you are, four easy and certainly useful ways to make yourself more memorable. Remember, making an impression is all about being you!